PROCESS YOUR THOUGHTS BEFORE MAKING A LIFETIME DECISION

         

Decision making involves making choices.Many people are afraid to make decisions because they make a wrong one.

We make thousands of decisions everyday,many are easy,others complex, stressful or both.

Introverts are notorious for waiting for the right moment to interject their comments.I know because I'm one,since talking isn't an introverts default behaviour,they only talk when they have a purpose that doesn't match the conversation.

              DECISION MAKING'

  

1.When you find yourself wavering between multiple options,your intuition is one of your most powerful decision_making tools.simply sit in a quiet place for a few minutes and reflect on the decision.

2.Thinking about how overwhelmingly important it is to pick the right life partner is like thinking about how huge the universe really is or how terrifying death really is.But unlike death and the universe's size picking a life time partner is fully in your control,so it's critical to make yourself entirely clear on how big a deal the decision is and to analyze it.

3.When it comes to dating, society frowns upon thinking too much about it, instead opting for things like relying on fate ,going with your gut, and hoping for the best.

_Biology! Biology! Biology! When we start seeing someone and feel the slightest twinge or excitement,our biology gets into "ok" let's do this mode and bombards us with chemicals designed to get us to mate(lust),fall in love (the honeymoon phase) and then commit for the long run (attachment).Our brains can usually override this process if we're just not that into someone,we often succumb to the chemical roller coaster and end up getting engaged.

*At the time of taking decision,there is no right decision or wrong decision.The outcome of the decision made only confirms whether the decision is right or wrong.if it proves to be right,enjoy the fruit of it.

*Trust your instincts and make judgements on what your conscious tells you.

*Decision leads to action and until a decision is made nothing happens.